Saturday was Hornsey Carnival day – and myself and Mayor Alan Dobbie are transported in a white open-topped car at the front of the parade. The sun came out – and for over two hours we waived and smiled as we passed very slowly along the carnival route – behind the float carrying the Hornsey Carnival Queen and Princess.
The organisation of this annual event takes quite a lot of doing and raises money for charity. In the parade are Carnival Queens on their floats from other areas of the country who come for the occasion – just as ours go to their carnivals.
There is something very wonderful about parades. People bring their children out to watch and we wave and smile – and everyone waves and smiles back. And it is, bizarrely, a very cheering and happy feeling that works both ways. Now a veteran of waiving and smiling – I have discovered that virtually however grumpy a person walking along minding their own business is – if you catch their eye and give them a genuine smile and waive – it is almost impossible for them not to waive and smile back – even if some are a little sheepish about it.
There are a lot of people out to see the parade – and despite it being Women’s Final day at Wimbledon – the morning rain has cleared to deliver perfect sunshine for the parade.
The funniest people to wave at are the poor souls who are driving along and find themselves stopped by the police to allow the parade to pass. You can understand why they can look very grumpy – particularly if they were in a hurry. But again – as I catch their eye and smile directly at them and wave – on the whole they smile and wave back and cheer up.
Even in a population that mainly likes to keep itself to itself and is intensely private – no one can resist human relationships – and we all want to come out of our shell. When someone inanely waiving and smiling at you comes along for no reason – somehow the absurdity (at one level) breaks down the normal barriers and we respond despite ourselves. ‘Cos in the end – that’s what makes the world go round – human relationships.


