Why should you have to ask the police eight times to help?

Last stop of the day is the Kurdish Community Centre in Portland Gardens N4. It is the start of the three-day festival celebrating women. Tonight I am on a panel of four women – two of the others of whom are famous Kurdish human rights campaigners and we are speaking on: ‘Kurdish Women – Fighting for Freedom Against Violence’.

The struggle of Kurdish women is astonishing – the violence against them (and of course other women too – sadly it’s universal) is too terrible.

But so is the reaction of our police – sadly. You may have read recently of Banaz Mahmod – the so-called Honour Killing. Domestic violence is what that was – men dominating women’s lives as if we are still their chattels. Makes me sick. But Banaz went to the police six times – and they took virtually no notice.

A woman in the audience this evening raised her hand to say that it happened to her too. She went to the police eight times – and they did not help her. I said to the women there – that if they find themselves in that position and the police do nothing after even the first time they go for help – then they must go to their Member of Parliament. For if I have a Kurdish (or any) women come to me who says she is in danger and the police are doing nothing I will raise it in Parliament and in the media and anywhere to get attention. The police have come a long way on rape and domestic violence – but clearly not nearly far enough.